What people ask before the first session

Yes. Mediation only works when both of you choose it. If one of you isn't ready, I can talk with each of you separately about what it involves.

Neither of you. A mediator is neutral, so I can explain the law in general terms but can't advise either of you on what's best for you. Many clients have their own lawyer review the agreement.

Mediation is billed by the hour and usually shared between you, in whatever split you agree. I'll give you the rate and a realistic estimate on the first call.

Most divorces take three to five sessions over a month or two. A workplace mediation is often one long day; a business dispute, one or two.

Mediation is private, and what's said in it generally can't be used in court. There are limits the law sets, such as a risk to a child's safety, and I'll explain them before we start.

Yes. Many sessions happen by video, and some people join from separate rooms or separate towns.

You can settle what you agree on and leave the rest for a judge. Even a partial agreement usually saves time and money.

You don't have to have one, but I recommend it, especially before signing. I'll suggest a point in the process when a review is most useful.

Often it isn't. If either of you is afraid of the other, tell me privately on the first call. I'll help you find the right kind of help instead.

For a divorce, I draft it in the form the court needs, and it's filed once you both sign. For work and business matters, it's a written agreement or terms your lawyers turn into a contract.